Should we try to save our marriage
We have seen an alarming increase in divorce rates around the world in recent times. The couples are vey busy in their professional world to spend quality time with their partners. The less they interact with each other, the differences are more. You have to act fast before you miss the bus. Couples should consider again and again before taking this major decision of life that is of divorce, whether you really do want to stop your divorce? Never let your ego be the decisive factor here for which you may have to repent in future.
The first and foremost thing is to maintain control over your emotions at all times and do not let them overwhelm your mind. The couples can also stay away from one another for some time to see whether they really need each other or not.
First priority should be given to the children, because children of a broken family are the worst sufferer, they may be badly affected by their parent`s decision which will reflect in their academic result.
The couples should understand that divorce does not solve any problem. They should seek professional help from matrimonial services if they are confused about their course of action. Here counselors are more reliable as they are neutral and give judgment with impartial mind than friends and relatives.
Of course, there are some grounds where divorce just can not be avoided like physical and mental brutality, extra marital affair, financial problems, Sexual Incompatibility; religious conversion etc. otherwise one should try to adjust with partner to save marriage.
There are two schools of thought, one believes in having marriage restored at any cost irrespective of end number of differences between spouses. Where as the other does not think the institution too sacred and wants to pull out of it even on slight provocation. Human emotion being basically same everywhere so history may repeat itself in near future. So stick with the present and both partners should rectify themselves and adjust a bit in order to save the great institution of Marriage.